Ex-Sunnyside Washington child, raised by amazing Mexican matriarch [Chula].
Saturday, December 01, 2007
Friday, November 30, 2007
Monday, November 26, 2007
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Escape from Mexico
This time of year we plan our holiday vacation; usually a new location in Mexico. In large part it's a way to connect with my past, to embrace a Mexican culture and heritage that's more pure than what I grew up with or what now surrounds us in Seattle [isolated to pockets throughout the region; growing]. We choose a Mexican destination based on what cultural events, scenery and weather [think beach and sun] it offers. But these wanderings are usually deep within Mexico; we intentionally stay away from the border towns or any hint of the merge from two countries blending into one experience.
Could it be, then, that I have repressed a sense of escaping Mexico? Could it be that I travel deep into the country knowing a return ticket sits in a pouch; taxi ride away from a plane ride home?
This is likely to be a multi-part post. Stay tuned.
con paz,
frank
Saturday, November 24, 2007
Wednesday, November 21, 2007
Tuesday, November 20, 2007
Sunday, November 18, 2007
Saturday, November 17, 2007
Friday, November 16, 2007
Saturday, November 10, 2007
Opposite ends
Con paz,
frank
Sunday, November 04, 2007
Report back to base
Con paz,
frank
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
Reflective corners
If you look in the right place in the mirror, the child smiles in return. Con paz,
frank
Not a fright night
Con paz,
frank
Sunday, October 07, 2007
Adios tofu stir fry
First, I need to recognize what an absolutely thankless job running a restaurant is. This guy likely put up with more shit than the average entrepreneur - and yet customers were begging for his food and atmosphere - during his run on Capital Hill. We should all be grateful for the service these little angels offer us, those of us addicted to the sweet smell of a well formed cafe [read kitchen flowing with great food].
Next, may we be blessed with more - not less - gratitude for these artisans. I've heard too much lately about how arrogant and pompous we've become, as customers, as a society. Seattle needs to be a great city because it takes care of those who take care of all of us.
Con paz,
frank
Wednesday, October 03, 2007
Go help the kids
I try very hard not to get political on my blog. So many of the subjects we face each day are [believe it or not] non-partisan. The core realities of life existed long before there were Democrats or Republicans - or the United States of America. But the recent veto of a bill which seems to be purely about helping kids have a healthy chance to reach a healthy adulthood just seems like bad politics. I have to believe this to avoid believing something else, like the person who controlled the veto doesn't like kids. Yuk.
So let your local politician know how you feel about a bill which helps kids get health insurance, and a good chance at a productive life in America.
con paz,
frank
Saturday, September 29, 2007
Tuesday, September 18, 2007
the what-if bear
and he said a few simple things in the morning?
Then you read farther and found an invitation to go up in the sky and look down on earth,
while drifting to a warm place without a name.
What if your only concern was what to wear,
because even though you're lovely, you must be discreet.
So filled a case full of favorite colors and...
con paz,
frank
Monday, September 17, 2007
Book choices
Years later we're debating what book to read tonite. Its between "The Rat" by Gunter Grass or "The Golden Compass" by Philip Pullman. My preference is "The Rat" to erase the memory of reading [aborted] "The Tin Drum"; a bleak tale of forbidden love evolving into national guilt.
Please send me your titles.
Con paz,
frank
Saturday, September 15, 2007
Palace of books
Burgers and iced coffees later.
Con paz,
frank
Sunday, September 09, 2007
Friday, September 07, 2007
D + f
Con paz,
frank
Sunday, September 02, 2007
Washington Park playground
Con paz,
frank
Adios haystack
frank
Saturday, September 01, 2007
Slumming on Hawthorne
frank
Thursday, August 30, 2007
Add lemonade
frank
Tuesday, August 28, 2007
Saturday, August 25, 2007
Butterflies are not free
Peace be with her.
frank
Cruising Home
Remember riding a bike, when you were a kid? As adults, we have a few logistics to work out [pun intended] before we can just jump on and go. So I bought a 1971 Triumph cruiser from 20/20 Cycle; upgraded handlebars and seat to be on my way. What a thrill!And what a thigh burn [ouch]. There's more muscles in motion than chasing a five year old girl riding these things. Since I only have three speeds to rely on, anything more inclined than a speed bump takes some work. But the bike functioned well, my body spunked along spitting blood [and Catholic Mexican curses] as I wound around the Central District, Leschi, Seward Park.
Viva two wheels!
frank
Monday, August 20, 2007
Cold August
But the real story is how much this has been a kids summer. Almost every weekend has been packed with kids activities - and we have one child! - leaving the following Monday to recover. Suppose we knew this kind of life was coming, and here it is. If you think I'm complaining, re-read the fine print cuz I am having a blast.
Meet us at the pool if you want to join the fun.
Con paz,
frank
Saturday, August 04, 2007
North of Boeing Field
Con paz,
frank
Wednesday, August 01, 2007
Saturday, July 28, 2007
Five lanes, and back
Having decent goggles is making a big difference, allowing her to see where she's going under water.
Con paz,
frank
Birthday Cake
Con paz,
frank
Saturday, July 14, 2007
Love in July
Later today we hope to enjoy outdoor theater at Volunteer Park, something to do with a reluctant dragon. Keep the fire my friends.
Con paz,
frank
Wednesday, July 04, 2007
Storm the castle
Con paz,
frank
Friday, June 22, 2007
More Aquarium
All staff were on best behavior today. Con paz.
frank
Facing west, new Aquarium
The rest is as before; special and a beautiful reminder of the nature we live within.
The otter exhibit is my favorite; reminds me of families playing in the water.
Con paz,
frank
Saturday, June 16, 2007
Solstice parade: before the start
Con paz,
frank
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
Sunday, June 10, 2007
Friday, June 08, 2007
Thursday, June 07, 2007
Orcas sunset
frank
Sideways rainbow
This one was a leftover from an Alkai drive that fell asleep.
Sweet dreams,
frank
Just like yesterday
Let us always be smiling in the bliss of this wedding.
Con paz,
frank
setup token for Chula
--
frank[ie]
"I thought the only lonely place was on the moon"
- Paul McCartney
Tuesday, June 05, 2007
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Back when it became clear this was going to be a career, not just ski money [yes, I was a ski bum for seven years] I made a decision to pursue 'special' work. Special is defined by how you feel, and in reflection, how others feel about the output of your chosen craft. In biz terms we call this customer satisfaction, tapping the tuning fork until the hum is not your own voice but that of those who 'pay' to receive the output of your chosen craft. Special is also defined by tradeoffs, as in it must be EXTRAordinary to take me away from what I love. And what I love must recognize it without any interpretation from me; if I have to explain why it's important then it's not special work.
Heading into the evaluation season; where nice things said translate into real [compensatory] dollars, consider what dollars can't buy. You can't buy special work; it's organic and generally uncontrollable [anthropologists talk about migration mutation] to the point where only primitive artifacts remain from the original design.
A special time for special work is coming. Bless us Father, that we may be lead to the best, to be the best, to give the best with our chosen craft. Con paz.
frank
Tuesday, May 29, 2007
Monday, May 28, 2007
guest blogger: words about peace [in a time of war]
BUT YES, NO WONDER THEIR CARS ARE CHEAPER.
Theirs is not a gentle culture ----------
But Our country is doing this in IRAQ ---There are more and more
publications about BLOWING AWAY women and children because of possable
help they are involved in-- toward unfound enemies...
Again it is easier to AVOID trouble than to try to get out of it.
Like the GONZOLIES problem Their cover up of what went on is worse than
if they had come clean in the first place...
Watergate was about lies --COVER UP.
BUSH,CHENEY, ROVE Will pay ESPECIALLY if more people wake UP!
Geoorge BUSH WAS NOT SMART ENOUGH To admit they BLEW IT, because 'they'
are still holding out for that 40 year 40% profit OIL CONTRACT
--BILLIONS in profits.
THEY ARE LETTING OVER 100 Americans a month DIE FOR. As COMANDER IN
CHIEF The desider can deside to have others stay and die .and no harm or
cost to him---- I hope the Iraq GOVERNMENT never gives it to
BUSH/CHENEY. Rove is the PATSEY re: this. The BIG MAN IS Cheney....HOW
MANY TIMES HAVE THE TAXPAYERS TAKEN HIM OVER TO TIGHTEN THE SCREWS ON
THEM IN BAGDAD.
The Tax payers are the PATSIES.
Stupidity + greed = U S A in Iraq.
Democrats and a hand full of REPUBLICANS (to be more and more) are our
only hope TO PREVENT A WAR WITH IRAN.....Please HEAVEN AND GOD don't
let it happen....
It is MADNESS cruel madness, that demands that every month ONE HUNDRED
OR MORE young AMERICANS, like this one, are ordered to be there and they
are killed and HUNDREDS more are injured.
The reason this slaughter continues is to secure OIL CONTRACTS. IT IS
NOT OUR OIL AND LOYAL AMERICANS WANT NO PART OF THESE OIL
CONTRACTS---HAVE YOU EVEN HEARD OF THEM ?
The lives and blood being wasted in IRAQ will continue in IRAQ as long
as IRAQ is OCCUPIED By an ARMY that they HATE and to redeploy out of
IRAQ is the only sane course to take..Remember Afghanistan THAT IS NOT
DONE YET.
This picture is great but sad, and it is not going to look so good if
this young man is a casualty ----There have been 3,400 or more deaths of
similar young Americans and est 23,000 injured and remember they have
no choice. They are ordered to suffer/die for OIL THAT WILL NEVER BE
OBTAINED. BECAUSE OF THE THE GREED OF SOME THAT ARE PUSHING THE WAR TO
CONTINUE AND JUST KEEP CONTINUING. IN THE HOPE TO STEAL THEIR OIL (
THEY ARE AFTER A 40 YEAR PRIVATE OIL CONTRACT PRIVATE THAT IS
PRIVATE......).
DO YOU KNOW ABOUT IT ?
WE DO NOT NEED TO STEAL THEIR OIL WE CAN BUY IT JUST LIKE ALL OTHERS
WILL DO. (WITHOUT THE PRIVATE CONTRACT PART)
100 dead AMERICANS PER MONTH MEANS NOTHING TO THEM. NONE OF THEIR
LOVED ONES OR FAMILY IS SERVING AS THIS YOUNG AMERICAN IS...
THE MAJORITY, LOYAL AMERICANS SAY END THIS MADNESS..
CAN YOU PRAY till you can vote....
May we all pray for peace. Con paz.
frank
Wednesday, May 23, 2007
Close to the bone
NPR did a story yesterday on gangs in Sunnyside, Washington USA. We heard the story driving to pick up Memphis from school; heading to a library event [at the Douglass Truth branch]. At first I chuckled "that's my home town!"; then I was pissed off. Apparently the city administrator they interviewed believes [or so he implied] that Mexicans are the root of all criminal activity; that they have brought this culture to Sunnyside for decades [which covers my time there]. WTF!
Sunnyside was many things to me; but it was not criminal. And there certainly were not any gangs at the source of any criminal activity [trust me, I would have known]. Sure young people [and this is where I have a problem with the slant on the story] were doing dumb things; but to be clear it was both white and Mexican kids. Funny how most of my bad influences in Sunnyside were white kids trying to shed their farmboy personna.
So if you're inclined; send NPR a piece of mail and let them know what you think about this piece of [you choose] reporting. Con paz.
frank
Monday, May 14, 2007
Madres y mas
Had a great birthday weekend [best ever?] followed by a fabulous Mother's day weekend. Deborah celebrated her birthday in the midst of this attention [and attention she received]; making for a non-stop fiesta weekend. We started Friday morning and ran the activities through Sunday evening. Spa, Coastal Kitchen, Atrium, Easy Street, The Globe, Ballard street market; backyard fun y mas. Oh, Xopil also jumped into the mix for his five year acknowledgment [talk about a pinata swinger].
Yesterday we were blessed to spend some time with Chula, hear her voice, be touched by her beautiful hands. She is sharing stories at a pure spirit level these days; have to remove myself from the day-to-day world to listen. What would I remember after 99 years of living? Hearing her Father's name - Louise [sp?] - makes me crave the time when bigger than life characters walked amongst our people. Deborah oftern shares these stories about her family's past; admit some envy.And what further blessing than to make new friends; Nachum and Schulamith. They joined us for Mother's Day brunch at The Globe; our favorite vegan restaurant in Seattle. The Globe owner recently installed a new dining table made out of one sequoia tree, it's beautiful, primitive and necessary for this open format diner. Try the tofu scramble.
What did I get for my birthday? Lots of love; and besos y mas.
con paz,
frank
Saturday, April 28, 2007
We have a new cat
Thanks to the great network that is work and email; we now have a new member of our family - 'Shadow'. She is a beautiful, panther like gato with a stride longer than a Mexican border stop. So far she gets along with everyone in our home, but we haven't done an over-nighter yet.
Look for pictures soon of our new cat and us. Con paz.
frank
Wednesday, April 25, 2007
The Orient and some stones

Just returned from a trip to China, India, the UK thanks to my dear employer, Uncle Bill.
It was fascinating to see the modern version of Beijing, pre-Olympics. The city is bursting with development activity, while standing poised to show the world it's best manners. One observation: for a city this large [population ~12 mil] there was virtually no garbage anywhere.
Bangalore, India was not the same. Where Beijing is orderly, clean and poised; Bangalore is a beautiful chaos. The city [and India in general] reminds me so much of Mexico. To walk around among the locals feels like a second home, all aspects of humanity spill over into the streets - it's lovely!
The UK was also lovely, but in a timeless sense. We had time to visit Stonehedge - which is about as timeless as humanity can get - driving through the English countryside to get there. The farms are beautiful landscapes shaped to exploit color, pattern and season. Compared to Bangalore, it's a quiet affair, livestock and birds make the most noise.
I'll upload pics later. Con paz.
frank
Thursday, April 19, 2007
Virginia
I read the ascension passages, from John and Luke. My morning prayer was filled with hurt, feeling the pain of children killed, whether in Iraq or Virginia. Help us Father please to move away from this violence, to be instead peace makers, lovers to each other. The children deserve our [adult] best, no? What are we teaching them? As someone in Bangalore asked: what must the world think of America?
The sun is rising on a beautiful day in Cambridge. Please know I love you with all my soul, heart. We travel together.
frank
Sunday, April 01, 2007
Last week of Lent: Sunday reflection
The voice [bahhhhhhh] of the little lambs is primitive, like a universal wail of an innocent soul. How could Our Father not hear this voice, in any place, any context? There is a connection to this past Friday's sister parish [Chiapas] gathering, where Jeannie talked about the lost sheep. Wherever we go, we can be heard, and found.
Tonite's Palm Sunday mass included a dramatic version of the Passion of Christ. Even in this abstract form, it's difficult for me to watch, and absorb it's full intensity. There is pain at the deepest level, to imagine the great goodbye between Christ and His immediate community. He knew what lay ahead, they perhaps did not but would eventually become fully aware of the dawn of His ministry. Until then, oh what sadness must have overcome them to witness the steps leading to the dawn.
As a greater, extended family we have suffered deeply the past few years. We have felt loss, we have felt troubles in many forms. We may have even strayed from the herd, unable to grasp the meaning of it all. No matter where we go, there is always a path back to the Good Shephard. One of my enduring prayers is that we come closer together, to be one family seeking the truth about our suffering. We all suffer, we all grow weary from the weigth of our daily chores. Let us be one in this journey, to turn the grey into bright vivid colors of love and beauty.
con paz,
frank
Saturday, March 31, 2007
Last week of Lent

The quiet, contemplative Lent just didn't happen. Here we are heading into the last week, and I am a supreme grump. Not necessarily mad at anyone, just frustrated with the state of the world - the Iran/UK standoff is yet another reminder of how we still can't seem to [as Lennon put it] "give peace a chance" - and it's drag on our psyches.
But we are asked to stay faithful, to open our arms to the suffering, to feed the poor, to heal the sick. In this context there is nothing to be grumpy about, only joy in sharing love.
And love it was at the Chiapas party last night. Commented to Deborah this morning how it feels like a full blown ministry; Jeannie has been wonderful at building this sister parish community, the arc of love spread from Seattle to southern Mexico.

Went into Lent hoping to deflect ego, meditate on the suffering and how we can help ease their daily lives. Let's work on it together. Con paz.
frank
Friday, March 23, 2007
Get lost
Our good friend Lee recently sent mail about "for the people, by the people". Lee is like a modern Mark Twain, an observer of the human condition from his family's point-of-view. He's lived long enough to sift the large grains of dirt out of an otherwise beautiful moment. I admire Lee because he is another elder among a decreasing few - they bless our lives in subtle ways [although if you listen and practice their shared wisdom, the impact is large] - kind and willing to teach us in the act of love.
So how is everyone? We've had [as a family, a circle of friends] a hard winter. Spring is here but there is much to thaw from, to release into blossom. Let me know how I can help.
con paz,
frank
Wednesday, December 06, 2006
our people
Having spent a month in the Yucatan; quite familar with this terrain,
and imagery. Even the blood gets due attention if you visit Quinta
Roo today. Reminder: this film is not for children; not sure adults
will stomach the violence, but true to the historic themes it is.
What's sad is how muted the Mayan are today; mostly farmers or
craftspeople living in a bad dream [tourist trap] run by the
colonialists. See Chiapas, or now Oaxaca for an example of how it can
go wrong. Con paz.
frank
Friday, November 17, 2006
crop duster
From snowballs to canyon roads to cut down grapes. Here we are.
con paz,
frank
Thursday, November 09, 2006
calm down, please
To me, there is no time for celebration as long as our fellow citizens are suffering. And to be very clear: both parties ran a very nasty set of campaigns; some could argue both sides of the aisle should have been cleaned out.
Point: Let's help our elected officials keep their eye on the ball; not wander off into destructive patterns which do not yield a better life for
all levels of our American society. Con paz.
frank
Saturday, October 14, 2006
Near life experience

Blurry Saturday morning; there's even fog outside [to match the fog in my head]. Here we are, end of summer and wet grass not from rain [sure sign the new season is here]; put clothes back on the bodies. Look at yourself. Did you change this year? I was talking to Robert yesterday about how we can grow frommassive change within a compact timeframe.
This year, like 2000, feels ripe for a full blossoming. Thank you Father for trusting us with so much; stretching beyond our own arc; letting the soul expand to fill in the vast space that was always there. This is love.
Do you ever travel within your own city? Danny Woo community garden is a vacation destination. The Japanese aesthetic surrounds advanced gardening from complex people with simple touches. It looks busy from the street, until you start walking around in it. The architecture - mix of wood and organic life - blends elegantly. And yet the garden is bordered by an interstate on the east, the south edge of downtown on the north and west, and a business district on the south. You can't escape the noise, doesn't matter. Peace be with you.
Josefina passed us by on the way to heaven. She rests in deep peace now with Tony. What a great story. There are many elders, listen for their voices in the mid-day sun, right when it all gets confusing ["what do I do next?"]. We hear you.
There's a princess in the house; need to prepare the chariot. Con paz.
frank
Tuesday, July 04, 2006
Free Me, please
What has always struck me as odd is how different the passage is depending on which direction [northward, southward] you're heading. Getting into Mexico, for most USA residents [almost typed 'citizens'] is uneventful, unless you're trying to bring a truckload of rifles and fresh cut weed into the country. In fact you keep going after crossing the border with almost zero friction, save for a few handout-seeking locals or local cops trying to make a meaningless bust an event [for dollar cash flow]. But heading into the USA is the grand sojourn, the right of passage journey made more spectacular with increased scrutiny applied to anyone with brown skin and eyes.
Today we celebrate independence from a mother country who just didn't understand the latest colony was not the same as those dark skinned people they previously conquered. We left their shores defiant, further empowered by surviving the journey across an ocean only crazy explorers and witches had the skills to master. And when they landed - this tiny petri dish of society waiting to mutate quickly, like a bacteria blessed with perfect conditions - the greeting was the first border encounter. One side looked at the other and wondered who was free.
Freedom is national, but it's also human in terms of natural drive to be unleashed from any restriction to complete awareness. We are species uncomfortable in chains, yet we have a long history of placing our kind in chains - real and virtual. I personally would enjoy spirited debate in the upcoming elections on the standard for freedom in the USA. Let's define it in words and actions every member of our society [again, not going to apply 'citizen' here] can agree on. Then we can move the masses toward this common definition. Who is 'we'? We are we; we are the people living in freedom, of some sort. Funny thing about freedom; you know it when you're not.
Bang bang; boom boom. Let the rockets red glare be bright in the sky above us; never to fall back down on any woman, child or man.
con paz,
frank
Monday, June 26, 2006
spank me
Quick poll: how many of you parents spank your children when they get unruly? Send me private email on the breaking point and technique. Results will not be disclosed broadly.
con paz,
frank











































